Confidence Building Tips admin, February 20, 2024 Confidence is built by being systematic. Successful people are systemic thinkers. We are creatures of habit, and the key to building self confidence is to create routines and habits which work towards gaining self confidence. If you habitually do things which build your confidence then it is inevitable that your feelings of self worth and self esteem will grow at the same consistent pace. If, on the other hand, you were to approach your life in a less systemic and more random manner, the results achieved will reflect your approach. Thus to build confidence in a solid and systemic manner, one needs to create habits which are designed to encourage greater and greater levels of self confidence and self esteem. If you habitually put yourself into arenas where you know you feel inferior, this is not going to help your confidence; rather, it will build the opposite effect, as each circumstance where you feel insecure makes you feel more and more out of place and uncomfortable. You may wonder how you can get started in creating these confidence building habits. If you always feel uncomfortable, or always feel inferior, how can you start this process? How can you find a circumstance which allows you to gain that first feeling of confidence? You find that first situation in your imagination. The human mind is an amazing tool. We are blessed with a powerful imagination. Those who worry about the “what if’s” in life know only too well the incredibly intense impact that a vivid imagination can have upon your subsequent reality. As you worry about “what if I blush?” a whole train of events is set in motion, ending of course with the inevitable cringingly uncomfortable blush which just appears from nowhere. “What if I freeze?” has a similar effect upon the would-be public speaker who just cannot think of a single word to say. These scenarios are but two examples of Uncategorized